Creativity and Love
Being neurotic one lives repeating the same mistakes, creating the same types of situations and insisting frustrating relationship. Being healthy is have option, is to choose and most importantly, know how to create new options. Use creativity in love is to turn into fire ashes almost erased. Research shows that couples who live together for more than 30 years and consider themselves happy use creativity to solve a problem. For example: “if the husband does not have time, make an appointment with fictitious name in his daily planner and a surprise appearance,” “nice dinner with candlelight and the best wine,” … The predisposing conditions are always to the fight is when in this position by surprise, half the bitterness disappears. People carry a lot of tension during the workday, and often take it home and add to domestic problems. We have to be creative to unload this tension. Be creative its ability to not suffer unnecessarily is to better resolve conflict and situations. It is very enriching to life, using the two basic functions of the creative imagination: the quest and enhancement. The search is as a beacon with which we find again in ourselves to each other. The improvement and just to make love grow in the relationship. Why not use our creative potential; we fall into the trap of routine, which both destroys a relationship. Complaints about the routine of the couple are the most common and interesting and that people do not realize that each individual is responsible for routine in which he lives. The routine follows a predetermined path of laziness, convenience or fear of reckless to the point of balance. All that builds with love is a new order, and the greatest task and transformation. The routine is finally repeating the same answers, the same behaviors. A minimum of routine, however, it is necessary for us to keep organize day by day. The man, have the ability to create and transform, but many people live by repeating the same mistakes, delaying or postponing major changes, is just acting like beasts. When man creates, looks like God, unlike the irrational animals.

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